Just a short word of advice. The best time to speak to your Spirit Guide is in the morning. That is when you're most alert and "pure" so to speak, after a night of fasting and dreaming. Whenever there is something bothering me, I usually remind myself to leave it for the morning. 99% of the time my "morning" advice has never led me astray. It's like listening to your gut instincts.
I ask various questions whether its asking, does my crush like me?" (I ask that question all the time!) or "Is this guy right for me"? or "How should I handle, xyz"? Try it and tell me if it works!